Day 11.

Be Realistic!

• EXODUS 18

  Jethro Visits Moses

  18 Now Jethro, the priest of Midian and father-in-law of Moses, heard of everything God had done for Moses and for his people Israel, and how the Lord had brought Israel out of Egypt.

  2 After Moses had sent away his wife Zipporah, his father-in-law Jethro received her 3 and her two sons. One son was named Gershom, for Moses said, “I have become a foreigner in a foreign land”; 4 and the other was named Eliezer, for he said, “My father’s God was my helper; he saved me from the sword of Pharaoh.”

  5 Jethro, Moses’ father-in-law, together with Moses’ sons and wife, came to him in the wilderness, where he was camped near the mountain of God. 6 Jethro had sent word to him, “I, your father-in-law Jethro, am coming to you with your wife and her two sons.”

  7 So Moses went out to meet his father-in-law and bowed down and kissed him. They greeted each other and then went into the tent. 8 Moses told his father-in-law about everything the Lord had done to Pharaoh and the Egyptians for Israel’s sake and about all the hardships they had met along the way and how the Lord had saved them.

  9 Jethro was delighted to hear about all the good things the Lord had done for Israel in rescuing them from the hand of the Egyptians. 10 He said, “Praise be to the Lord, who rescued you from the hand of the Egyptians and of Pharaoh, and who rescued the people from the hand of the Egyptians. 11 Now I know that the Lord is greater than all other gods, for he did this to those who had treated Israel arrogantly.” 12 Then Jethro, Moses’ father-in-law, brought a burnt offering and other sacrifices to God, and Aaron came with all the elders of Israel to eat a meal with Moses’ father-in-law in the presence of God.

  13 The next day Moses took his seat to serve as judge for the people, and they stood around him from morning till evening. 14 When his father-in-law saw all that Moses was doing for the people, he said, “What is this you are doing for the people? Why do you alone sit as judge, while all these people stand around you from morning till evening?”

  15 Moses answered him, “Because the people come to me to seek God’s will. 16 Whenever they have a dispute, it is brought to me, and I decide between the parties and inform them of God’s decrees and instructions.”

  17 Moses’ father-in-law replied, “What you are doing is not good. 18 You and these people who come to you will only wear yourselves out. The work is too heavy for you; you cannot handle it alone. 19 Listen now to me and I will give you some advice, and may God be with you. You must be the people’s representative before God and bring their disputes to him. 20 Teach them his decrees and instructions, and show them the way they are to live and how they are to behave. 21 But select capable men from all the people—men who fear God, trustworthy men who hate dishonest gain—and appoint them as officials over thousands, hundreds, fifties and tens. 22 Have them serve as judges for the people at all times, but have them bring every difficult case to you; the simple cases they can decide themselves. That will make your load lighter, because they will share it with you. 23 If you do this and God so commands, you will be able to stand the strain, and all these people will go home satisfied.”

  24 Moses listened to his father-in-law and did everything he said. 25 He chose capable men from all Israel and made them leaders of the people, officials over thousands, hundreds, fifties and tens. 26 They served as judges for the people at all times. The difficult cases they brought to Moses, but the simple ones they decided themselves.

  27 Then Moses sent his father-in-law on his way, and Jethro returned to his own country.

• ROMANS 5:8

  But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.

• EPHESIANS 2:8

  For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God

• PHILLIPIANS 1:6

  being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus. (NIV)

It can be quite exhausting living up to your ideals - in fact, it can be impossible!

Sometimes we set higher expectations for ourselves than even God might expect for us. In these situations it’s good to have an outside observer bring some friendly advice.

Jethro could see that what Moses was doing was good - but not sustainable. It takes a team to achieve the dream! Moses would quickly burn out if he didn’t ask for help, and take a long term approach.

As you set off in a new direction for change and growth you can get excited about the outcome, but don’t make the mistake of thinking it will be all up to you to get you there! You will want immediate change, but God is patient and working from a holistic approach!

This is Moses and your reminder to be realistic! You can’t do this all on your own. You need to manage your self-expectations.

God’s love and acceptance is not based on what you can do for him, but despite what you have done.

Whatever you do now is not for his love, but because of his love.

Write:

What isn’t changing fast enough? Where am I putting too much pressure on myself for results? How much of this is driven by my ego? Is my focus on this area, obscuring my view of other things that need attention?

Pray:

Dwell on the Father’s love, grace and acceptance for at least 5mins. Receive his affirmation and kindness.